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The Care and Peace of the Holy Family

  • Writer: Erkki Viinikainen
    Erkki Viinikainen
  • Aug 5
  • 4 min read

Second Sunday of Christmas

First Edition


Gospel Luke 2:41–52 In the House of the Lord


Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem every year for the Passover. When Jesus was twelve years old, they went up according to custom at the feast. When the feast was over, they returned, but the boy was not found in Jerusalem. They thought he was in the company of the travelers, and they went a day’s journey before they began to look for him among their relatives and acquaintances. When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem and continued their search.

After three days they found him in the temple, sitting in the midst of the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. All who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him, they were greatly astonished, and his mother said to him, “Son, why have you done this to us? Your father and I have been looking for you, and we were distressed.” Jesus answered them, “Why were you looking for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” But they did not understand what he meant by this.

Jesus went home with them, and came to Nazareth, and was subject to them. His mother kept all these things in her heart. Jesus grew in age and wisdom; and he was in favor with God and men. (Luke 2:41–52 First Edition)


The Holy Family and Their Concerns


The shared moments and love of the family help us to face life’s challenges together. Especially when anxiety strikes suddenly, we can learn from the Holy Family: Joseph, Mary, and Jesus. Luke 2:41-52 offers us valuable lessons on how to deal with worry. Here we will examine how we can manage worry and find peace as parents. The Gospel reveals that the Holy Family was not free from worry. When Jesus was lost to his parents, it caused great heartache and fear. Joseph and Mary, God’s specially chosen servants, were faced with a situation that would be frightening for any parent.

They had traveled to Jerusalem for a great feast, with many acquaintances and relatives present. This explains why Jesus could be momentarily lost in the midst of a large crowd. He was not only their child, but also a special gift, and the thought of losing him was naturally filled with worry. This is not only the experience of the Holy Family, but also the daily lives of many of us.


Martin Luther’s Insight


Martin Luther’s thoughts on this Gospel offer us profound insight into anxiety. He emphasized that the Holy Family lacked peace because of their worries. They lived in constant fear and went through many heartaches. According to Luther, God was preparing Joseph and Mary for the difficult moments that Jesus’ life would bring. We ask ourselves if worry is a part of our lives and if we are ready to face it. Worry is not a consequence of sin, but a human emotion that we must learn to accept. This realization can help us deal with worry better.


Three Days of Worry


The thought of a child being lost for three days is terrifying to many parents. Joseph and Mary searched for Jesus among sin and relatives, and the worry grew all the time. When they found Jesus in the manger, Mary expressed her concern, saying, “Your father and I have been looking for you anxiously.” This phrase sums up their love and concern. There are studies that show that 70% of parents feel intense anxiety for the safety of their children. This is a feeling that many parents deeply understand.


Finding Peace


Jesus’ response to his mother, “Why were you looking for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” reveals the peace that comes from God’s will. Jesus’ words point to a greater purpose that goes deeper than human concerns. This also reminded Joseph and Mary that their son was the living Son of God. Peace is not just the absence of fear, but it is also a completely different, deeper peace that can help us even when we have great concerns about our own children. Through faith, we can find comfort and peace in all our difficulties.


An Example of Anxiety


Anxiety is an emotion that every parent can identify with, but it is not the only emotion we feel. We can experience happiness and worry at the same time. The Holy Family taught us an important lesson: Jesus was a message of God’s love and care. Supporting relationships are also vital in times of anxiety. Joseph and Mary found Jesus in a sanctuary, which reflects this sense of community. Sharing worries with friends and family can be an invaluable support in difficult times.


God cares for us


This gospel reminds us that God is present in our distress. We are not alone – prayer and meditation can be a safe haven to which we can always return. God as a father who cares for us gives us a sense of peace.

The experiences of Mary and Joseph are also a lesson for us in our current times. Everyone faces worries, and we seek peace in an ever-changing world. Accepting worry can help us find peace.


Worry as a part of life


Accepting worry is important, because it is part of human life. We must accept that we can experience joy and worry at the same time. Worry can teach us how to support and help each other. Every challenge is an opportunity to strengthen the bonds between family and friends. Parents can support each other, and this involves commitment and love, which makes family ties stronger.


Summary


The Gospel of Luke, chapter 2, verses 41-52, is a central part of the Christian message. Worry cannot be avoided, but it can bring peace. The example of the Holy Family shows us that worry is human, and although they lived in a special situation, they experienced feelings similar to ours. It is human to face anxieties, and they can find comfort in the peace that comes from God. We can always turn to him. Life in the Holy Family teaches us about mercy, courage and love, despite great worries.


 
 
 

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